21. Prompt of the Day – Effective Ways to Manage Negative Thoughts Daily

Daily writing prompt
What’s the best way to deal with negative thoughts?

I believe the answer is to find an appropriate outlet.

For far too long, we have focused so much on optimizing our happiness and productivity, yet no one honestly tells us how to deal with our negative feelings. Most suppress them, others lash out. But then there are some who sit down, reflect, and journal it out, some hit the gym, some paint, some go for a run, some ruminate. Trying to escape negative thoughts without giving them a chance to speak up invites a problem bigger than the one you started with.

We are all susceptible to negative thoughts, but how we deal with them ultimately decides the quality of our life.

Constantly doom scrolling, escaping into endless binge-watching, or drowning in harmful habits is one way of coping. Therapy is another. It really depends on the severity of your condition. But the least one can do is sit down with the negative thoughts and have a tête-à-tête, or let the thoughts flow while you journal, paint, write or create. They need an outlet, not suppression or ignorance.

20. Prompt of the Day – From Hate to Love: Embracing My Body’s Journey

Daily writing prompt
What do you love now, that you hated when you were younger?

My body.

I grew up obese for most of my early life. The first time I lost weight drastically was due to severe depression in grade 11. I hated looking at mirrors while growing up, cried profusely in silence asking myself why I had such a heavy body while other girls got to enjoy their youth feeling confident and attractive.

I am 34 years old now. I do strength training 3-4x per week, started doing yoga, finished a half and a full marathon last year, and have run so many miles in the process. My body does not look anything like a ripped, fit, strong body, but it is mine and it helps me feel great. I now appreciate its strength and resilience, even though I have put it through so much negative self-talk, repeated harm, and outright ignorance. Not anymore.

I take care of it with all my heart, with grace and love, because this body is here till the end of my journey. And I want to feed it with so much love and gratefulness that I was unable to give it when it needed it the most.

The Anthropologists

Cover of 'The Anthropologists' by Ayşegül Savaş, featuring a hand reaching towards a glass of drink on a table, with a blurred background and a green design.
The Namesake by Jhumpa Lahiri

The Anthropologists by Ayşegül Savaş

Rating: 3 out of 5.

Print Length: 192 pages
Format: ebook
Publisher: Bloomsbury Publishing
Genre: Immigrant, Literary Fiction, Coming-of-age story, Cultural Heritage Fiction

This one came to me through a recommendation from my ex-manager. She knew I was reading different immigrant stories and pointed me toward The Anthropologists by Ayşegül Savaş. I went in without expectations. What I did not expect was a writing style I had genuinely never come across before.

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